Happy Tuesday. Welcome to the first of what will be a new weekly post on my blog. I have been wanting to come up with something that I post every week that is a great expression of me and my life. Enter TWIP or This Week in Parenting. I have three children, ages 8, 7 and 4. There are a lot of things that go on in this household that sometimes have me shaking my head. In fact, this parenting thing is one of THE HARDEST jobs that God has ever entrusted me with. I thought it would be fun to share questions, dilemmas, laughable moments and other such parenting adventures in this post. This could very well change some over time as I tweak what works and what doesn't. You can join along in this little journey.
That said, let's get started with the first TWIP post.
We have many fun conversations with our children around here, some of which give us a glimpse of what just may be ahead for us. On Sunday, when we were getting ready for Church, my 4-yr old came into our room and asked my husband if she could wear nail polish. He informed her there wasn't enough time to paint them, to which she responded in a sad tone, "Awww, I really wanted to wear it so the boys would chase after me." Oh my. Later on, I asked her if she thought boys were cute and she shook her head yes. My son says ewww every time I ask him about girls, but my 4-yr old is already interested in boys? Gee, wonder which of the two will require more creative parenting.
In December, my 7-yr old daughter got baptized. She accepted Christ into her heart last year and we've been talking to her about baptism here and there. She has been very interested in taking her Bible with her and reading it. She very religiously takes money as an offering to Church without being told. She was ready and we made sure she understood what it meant.
Here she is telling everyone just how much she loves Jesus!
With that came a lot of questions. The hardest of which was:
"If God made everything, then who made God?"
My response: "Well, nobody made God.... (and then after I really thought about how confusing that was to her and how little sense it made, I said)...I honestly don't know how to answer that. There are some things we just can't think about".
Doh. What a stupid answer.
My hubs respons: "You can ask God that question when you see him in heaven."
Much better response.
I'm chalking this up to one of those moments I was thoroughly unprepared for. After all, I'm trying to instill the importance of Jesus into my children's life, but can't even answer all of their questions? Like I said, parenting is hard. I'd love to know how would YOU answer that question?
See you next Tuesday for another "This Week in Parenting" post.